Exploring the Pembrokeshire Coast of Wales is simplicity itself!
1. You can be a novice at trains and buses.
In South Wales, you quickly learn that knowing what you’re doing isn’t a prerequisite for having everything work out as it should. The recent adventure Jackie, aka Seester, and I had in Pembrokeshire is proof of that.
We tried to be good tourists and decipher the Arriva trains, the (driven by the best drivers ever given licenses!) buses, the sometimes too expensive taxis, and the multitude of footpaths.
We knew from our previous trip that one or a combo of a few could be the best way to reach our destination. For instance, to leave the Brecon Beacons Park, we walked a mile to the bus stop, journeyed two hours through the hills, switched to a train at Swansea for another hour and a half to arrive at the Saundersfoot stop, where we caught a ride in a painter’s van (There’s a story there, but not for this blog.) to Edith Cottage, the charming cottage that was our home for a week.
Trains & Buses are a novelty for us
2. You’re sure to laugh with someone new.
What’s more fun than decrypting train schedules, bus passes, and dickering with taxi drivers over fares, is knowing there’s one thing to be relied on throughout your journey: the kindness of the Welsh people to laughingly (with you, at you—it’s all the same) help you and set you on the proper course. Time and time again.
It can be a casual chat over coffee with the proprietress of the local shop, or a more in depth, but impromptu tour of Tenby with the formal mayor. When you’re warm and genuine to others, they sense it and return the sentiments—isn’t that a great way to discover a new place?
Caffi Pura – the owner made great lattes & conversation
3. Exploring Pembrokeshire is a study in unique people.
As Maggie told us when we met over her blooming garden, “As soon as you talk with a Welsh person, they’ll ask how long you’ll be here. It’s not rudeness, it’s to see how much time we’ll have with you.” What a delightful approach to meeting strangers, don’t you think? This complements their willingness to befriend the lost and set you on your intended course—or, quite often—offer a new idea that’s better than your plan.
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- Maggie’s front garden
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- A glimpse of Maggie
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- One of the side gardens
4. The size keeps it manageable.
At around 8,000 square miles, Wales is about the size of the state of Massachusetts. Because Wales has 3,074,067 people compared to our state’s population of 6,547,629, it allows a lot more space between humans.
There might really be something to the big wide openness of a landscape allowing the people to be open to each other.
Goodwick–a whole lot of open space
5. Wales has a notable simplicity.
If you’re one of those crazy Americans who’ve allowed an unhealthy amount of stress to pervade your life, I recommend a leisurely stay in Pembrokeshire. Inland towns from Brecon to Haverford are pretty and enticing, but it’s the coastal villages that captivate my wanderlusting heart and had me saying eighteen times a day, “Have I mentioned how much I love Wales?”
As soon as I set foot in one of these quaint communities, from Fishguard to Goodwick to Saundersfoot to Tenby, I think to myself: How soon can I return? How can I stay longer?
These lovely, quiet places along the Coast have a pervasively relaxing approach to life that reminds me of a California beach town where the daily attitude was, “Surf’s up, be happy.” Not a surfer, I didn’t get that so much. This peacefulness, I get. My heart is boundlessly happy when I’m walking the turf of this land.
6. The Pembrokeshire Coast Path.
Since first reading about the Path a few years ago, I’ve had a mind to walk the length of it—186 miles. Anyone who knows me knows I’m not the trooper to do this in one fell swoop, I must have time to enjoy a glass of wine, savor a bit of chocolate, marvel at the design in my latte, and always keep the conversation with the locals flowing. Rather, I’ll continue to conquer bits of the trail anytime one hike at a time.
The Pembrokeshire Coast Path
Summing it all up…
The simplest way to enjoy South Wales is to ready your shoes for walking, whether it be a stroll or a hike, a town path or the coastal trail. Know that your best-laid plans may go awry and decide now not to let it bother you. Kick back, put on your brightest smile and start trekking. The sights will be varied and the people you meet are guaranteed to captivate your soul.
Next week: Genuine Conversations with the Fun-Loving Welsh
Hi Rose Mary. I was so intrigued to come across this post on your blog. My family and I know this part of Wales – Pembrokeshire and particularly the coast north of St David’s – very well: We go most years and have done so even before I met my husband (we stayed in the same cottage – owned by the mutual friend who later introduced us – on separate occasions before the actual introduction!). We love it. It is so wild and unpopulated by tourists, even in the height of… Read more »
Such great memories!
I would definitely enjoy a trip like the one you had in south Wales. I love walking (but yes, some chocolate along the way makes it so much better.) My first date with my husband, we walked all over NYC for about 12 hours. We both said we had blisters the next day we walked so much. Of course, much more beautiful walking in South Wales. It looks like such a tranquil place to explore.
How fun! It would appear that you had a brilliant unwinding time. Sounds truly simple to get around there. Great to know when they ask to what extent you will be there it isn’t a welcome to leave .
Great post, Rose. I’ve neve been to Wales, but would certainly be interested in going.
I love the way you say that the Welsh laugh at and with you in a friendly way. We were laughed at in Paris by the conductors on the train (for getting on the wrong train) but it felt humiliating and frustrating, as they did nothing to help us.
I think you’re right about the small size working in tandem with the friendliness of the people to make Wales a wonderful destination for visitors.
Hi Rose, how fun! Looks like you had a wonderful relaxing time. Sounds really easy to get around there. Good to know when they ask how long you will be there it isn’t an invitation to leave . lol
Rose Mary. You won’t believe the number of times I’ve put off going to South Wales! Some how something else gets in the way. But I’m really hoping to visit soon and most likely during my Easter break. Love the simplicity of it all.
Wales seems like a nice place to visit. It seems very mellow and chill.
Wales looks so peaceful and like just a great place to unwind and find tranquility. You and your sister definitely look like sisters. There is no doubt that you are family.
Wales sounds like just my kinda place! What a wonderful adventure, and I was smiling the whole time I read about your transportation challenges. I recall my first visit to Japan and all my well-meaning peers told me to stay close to the hotel, don’t venture out because I would never find my way around. Five minutes after I checked in, I was out the door exploring. By my third trip to the country, I was venturing out on my own using the trains, buses, and subway and while I did… Read more »
This post made me long to go back to Wales. My first visit there last fall was too short. Like Jacquie, I found your pictures de-stressing.
What a great article, Rose Mary! We enjoyed our brief stay in Monmouthshire, and can’t agree more about Wales. I keep hearing these stories about Pembrokeshire, so it’s now on my list for next time! I leave for home on Sunday.wahhhhhhh!
Rose Mary – you certainly saw some sights whilst in the UK!
Wales is beautiful – your photographs clearly evidence this.
Sounds like a great place to chill out. Your post suggests a “don’t sweat the little stuff” attitude.
I’ve always wanted to do a long trail like The Pembrokeshire Coast Path, but have yet to do more than a two-night backcountry hike.
Wow, this looks like an amazing trip! I have never been to Wales or any of the other places you mentioned. I will have to add it to my wish list. The pictures are beautiful too. Thanks for sharing.
We’ve been keeping an eye on your website to checkout your review of the wonderful west of Wales.
Looks like you had a fabulous time, the weather wasn’t even too bad!
Hopefully you’ll make another trip back soon.
Bethan and Tracy (the tired girls travelling from Miami to home on the ‘wrong’ Paddington train).
rose, sounds like you had a marvelous time – I’m so glad. I like the way you took the ‘less than planned’ in stride, exactly as I expected of you.
Your photos are gorgeous and what memories you made.
But selfishly, glad you’re back to share this with us.
Loved this trip. Every. Second. Of. It.
What a delightful journey you shared with us! Just looking at those lovely photos de-stressed me:)